Gone are those days when finding a lipstick mark or traces of hair sent a signal that your partner is cheating on you.
Nowadays, people have become smarter and they hardly leave any trace to get caught. With modern era and technology, people spend more time on gadgets and social networking sites. The social media platforms play a key role in catching them red-handed.
Before you move on with doubts, ask yourself a question “Does your partner love you and care about your feelings?” If the answer is yes, then your partner is not cheating you because all people are not same. Give him/her some space.
Otherwise, clear your doubts with the signs below.
1. Your partner pays extra attention to his/her looks
When all of a sudden, your partner starts paying extra attention towards his/her look or try to get more attractive physically than this is a sign that something is wrong. Your partner must be looking out for someone and wants to ensure that hot chicks/guys are attracted towards him/her.
2. Your partner starts accusing you
To overcome the guilt of cheating, your partner will start accusing you for small things. In this way, your partner will shift an onus on you for cheating.
3. Your partner demands privacy, hides messages and other data
Cheating partners may lock their phone and change common passwords you both share (of social networking sites), this is to ensure that there is no way to trap his/her affair.
Another sign is that your partner will call or text message when you are not watching or sleeping. Check if your partner deletes call logs or text messages and have a lock on hidden apps. Your partner may save the number of his/her beloved with a fake name so be alert if you find anything suspicious.
4. Your partner surprises you with unexpected gifts
The best way to overcome the guilt of cheating is to shower you with unexpected gifts. Cheating partner often uses this tool to cover his/her affair. You will find it so romantic, but it may mean that your partner is hiding something from you.
5. Your partner will show less interest in you
If your partner is cheating, he/she will find ways to spend less time with you and whenever you catch him/her up in a meeting with unknown people he/she will give an excuse that it’s an official meeting.
Cheaters know how to convince you when they are caught. So, next time when they introduce new sister/ brother or office mate, be alert otherwise you will end up being fooled by their story.
6. Your partner is cheerful and happy while returning home
If your partner is cheating on you then he/she will be happy without any reason. Instead of looking tired, he/she will return home in a refreshed mood. He/she will chase you around to make sure you don’t catch them.
7. Your partner plans out a business trip or asks you to go away for a vacation
Your partner may need some space during his/her extra affair. For this purpose, either your partner will plan a frequent trip and business trip alone or will ask you to go out on a trip. After all, cheating mate needs some time with his/her new crush. So, next time you experience such a behaviour, plan a surprise visit to clear your doubts.
8. Your partner gives vague details
Your partner might end up telling so many lies to you that at the end, his/her details turn out to be vague. You might be wondering why a partner is hiding little things or giving you false explanations. It is a sign that you are being cheated.
9. Your partner spends more time on laptop or computer
Keeping work and important things aside, if your partner is spending time with gadgets during odd hours, then it’s a sign he/she is cheating on you. Have a look at website or chat room, he/she is visiting.
10. Follow your intuition
You and your partner are connected with an inner bond, once your better half starts cheating on you, you will feel the dullness in your bond. You will see a change in your partner’s behaviour or your partner will spend less time with you. This may be an alarm signal.